Friendship. Life isn't about the money you make, the fancy cars you might buy, the supermodel you might marry or the big house you might live in. It's about your friends. I can't tell you guys how many times i've seen people take friendship for granted, including myself. People always tell me that they don't like the people they hang out with, or there's so much drama with that person. Well guys i'm gonna tell you something, you don't have to like the people you hang out with. It doesn't make you a bad person if you don't like someone, in fact it makes you a better person. If you liked every single person you hung out with, and didn't think twice about that persons flaws, then i might think that your some kind of robot. Everyone, including me have people in their lives that they just can't stand. If you really can't take your friends anymore, even the ones you've been friends with, then try hanging out with someone new, someone you never see outside of school. I mean, this past weekend i hung out with someone who i rarely see, and i had a fun time. We've all got someone in our lives who we're always wanted to get to know, here's your chance guys and gals
My mother always told me, that everyone has one true friend. Someone they can trust above all other people, someone who will be their shoulder to cry on when they feel sad, someone they can depend on above anyone else. I personally haven't met this friend yet, but i know people who have. When you find someone out there who is willing to help you above anyone else, you know you have your one true friend...
J-Moose
Tuesday, November 13, 2007
It's Good To Know
I just wanted to quickly drop by and say thank you to the number of positive responses i've had to my blogs. I try to put thought and effort into what i write, and it is hard to come up with meaningful topics to discuss everyday, but none the less i try. It makes me happy to know that i'm not the only one out there with problems like mine. So here's what we're gonna do. I'm now opening my blog to giving advice to anyone who needs. I know that if we deal with our problems together we can help one another become stronger better people. Most of you know who i am, and unfortunately some of you choose to stay anonymous. I want you to know that i'm here to help you, no matter who you are. Maybe your someone i rarely talk to, or someone who i've never talked to at all, just know that i'm more then willing to lend my assistence in any way i can......
J-Moose
J-Moose
Monday, November 12, 2007
Hapiness May Not Be A Fish You Can Catch, But I Think I've Come Pretty Close
I don't go out a lot, but usually when the oppurtunity arises i will endeavor to make my presence known where ever i am. Tonight i actually had the privledge of being invited to two seperate things, one to hang out with some people at work, the other to go see a movie with a friend i rarely see.
I wasn't really into going out with people from work, not that i have anything against them, because they're good people, but i wanted to spend the night at home just chillin. Then as luck would have it, an old friend invites me to a movie, an oppurtunity i didn't wanna pass up. So i went out with him and his buddy, and i had a fairly good time. But instead of more boring details lets just get straight to the point. We went to see Fred Claus, which was kind of crappy. But throughout the movie there's that feeling of being happy. Maybe its the music, maybe its the sceneary, whatever it is, it makes you feel good inside. I'm not gonna lie, when i feel good inside i wanna cry.
I don't think i'll ever understand why happiness is so catchy, but i know that it deals with matters of the heart. Love makes you happy, your friends make you happy, knowing that you've done something fulfilling makes you happy. Tomorrow is a new day my friends, and for what its worth i think we should all do something to make someone else happy. I don't want anyone to expect praise for making this other person happy, just the thought of knowing that you did something good, should warm you soul. Right now i feel the happier then usual, and it's a shame that its after midnight and i can't share this feeling with anyone because i know that i could really make their day. I leave you with a thought my friends, "To see another smiles after you've made them feel good, is the warmest sensation that we as humans will ever feel"...........
J-Moose
I wasn't really into going out with people from work, not that i have anything against them, because they're good people, but i wanted to spend the night at home just chillin. Then as luck would have it, an old friend invites me to a movie, an oppurtunity i didn't wanna pass up. So i went out with him and his buddy, and i had a fairly good time. But instead of more boring details lets just get straight to the point. We went to see Fred Claus, which was kind of crappy. But throughout the movie there's that feeling of being happy. Maybe its the music, maybe its the sceneary, whatever it is, it makes you feel good inside. I'm not gonna lie, when i feel good inside i wanna cry.
I don't think i'll ever understand why happiness is so catchy, but i know that it deals with matters of the heart. Love makes you happy, your friends make you happy, knowing that you've done something fulfilling makes you happy. Tomorrow is a new day my friends, and for what its worth i think we should all do something to make someone else happy. I don't want anyone to expect praise for making this other person happy, just the thought of knowing that you did something good, should warm you soul. Right now i feel the happier then usual, and it's a shame that its after midnight and i can't share this feeling with anyone because i know that i could really make their day. I leave you with a thought my friends, "To see another smiles after you've made them feel good, is the warmest sensation that we as humans will ever feel"...........
J-Moose
Sunday, November 11, 2007
Relationships Aren't Interesting
For what it's worth, i'm not against dating, or relationships. Lately though, all i hear is people constantly telling me, "aww your such a sweet heart" and "Don't worry J-Moose, you'll find someone for you". Let me explain something to everyone out there, i could care less about being in a serious realtionship right now. No i am not saying that i never want to be in one, but constantly i see people hooking up or breaking up, or just having a one time fling and i can't grasp on how they do it. Being in a relationship is something you have to work at, and if you don't show some commitment to it, then you either end
I'll admit i wouldn't mind having a girlfriend, i'm pretty sure i'd be a happier person if i did have one. But of course i go to the school where being a jock and being the life of the party gets you the girl. Don't get me wrong, there are quite a few attractive young ladies at my school, who aren't completely obsessed with finding the handsomest guy around. The problem with them is, they can do a lot better then me. It's not that i'm not attractive, i'm just not boyfriend material. The whole call every day, act all loveydovey. Sorry guys and gals, i'm just don't think i'm ready to take the relationship plunge. So for everyone i wish you the best of luck, but don't push me into doing something i'm not ready for.
I'll admit i wouldn't mind having a girlfriend, i'm pretty sure i'd be a happier person if i did have one. But of course i go to the school where being a jock and being the life of the party gets you the girl. Don't get me wrong, there are quite a few attractive young ladies at my school, who aren't completely obsessed with finding the handsomest guy around. The problem with them is, they can do a lot better then me. It's not that i'm not attractive, i'm just not boyfriend material. The whole call every day, act all loveydovey. Sorry guys and gals, i'm just don't think i'm ready to take the relationship plunge. So for everyone i wish you the best of luck, but don't push me into doing something i'm not ready for.
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