I knew I'd Be Discussing This Topic Again

A second topic on what you might ask? Love and relationships. I was on missyD's page and she was asking what true love is. I gave a response which in my mind is correct, but i think i'm gonna add a bit more to it.

This is my description of when a boy likes a girl and how he chooses to act upon his feelings, and how the girl (i think) responds:

Boy: His palms are all sweaty, and his beats faster as the moments pass. There she is, the girl of his dreams. She may not be the prettiest or the most popular girl, but his heart can't deny him of his wanting. They've talked before, and the connection is definitely there, but something is holding him back. His nerves always seem to get the best of him, because when he tries to express himself, the words he chooses are never the right ones. But today will be the day. When classes end, he approaches he locker, the words come out perfectly. He studders, of course, but finally manages to ask her out. A date, and a simple one at that. Dinner and a Movie, what could be more classic?

And so the day approaches. The dinner wasn't at some fancy restaurant, but at some place where they could enjoy themselves. He talks to her, discussing school, life, jobs, and their friends. He can't help but look into her eyes, and be lost in them for a few seconds, before realizing he probably looks like a moron doing so. A witty remark and few minutes later, they continue to the theater across the way. He chooses dramedy. Something serious, yet suttle when the moment calls for it. The films not important to him, only the beauty sitting in the seat beside him. His mind is contemplating, his actions. The simple holding of hands, or the arm around her? The answer never reaches his mind, because before he knows it, she's resting her head on his shoulder. He quickly puts his arm around her and smiles triumphantly. The night ends and he takes her home. He doesn't want the night to end, but he knows that it will. They reach her door, and smile at one another. Suddenly, time seems to stop. He leans forward and closes his eyes, hoping she responds. Nothing else matters, except her. And there it is, he finds her. He's waited for so long for this moment and to him, it lasts an eternity. Finally, they part. His face is beat red, as his hers. She leans in and hugs him, whispering softly in his ear "i've been waiting for this"


Girl: For two months he's all thats been on her mind. Her friends always tell her that he's way out of her league, and try to explain how a guy like him works. She ignores it. She knows him better than that. They talk almost everyday, and have a few classes together. To her, he seems like the perfect guy, sweet, charming and cute. What more could she ask for? She begins to put her books into her bag, and begins to relax after a long day. She looks over and see's him approaching. Her mind tells her that he's probably gonna ask about some homework, but her heart wishes for something else. He asks what she's been waiting for, and gladly agrees.

Dinner and a movie, what a perfect first date. She spends hours picking out the perfect outfit, choosing the right makeup, and getting her hair just the way she likes it. She waits and eventually he shows up. They reach their first destination, a quiet little dinner. They talk and she loves hearing his voice. Her eyes gaze into his, and she realizes that he's looking directly into hers. He quickly starts talking and she intently listens. They finish dinner and head over the the movies. A dramedy. Perfect. Her oppurtunity to flirt approaches. The movie starts and as interesting as it is, she wants him to make a move. She notices him slightly move his hand closer to her, but pulls away at the last second. Nerves. How cute. She slowly rests her head upon his shoulder, and feels his arm slip around her. To her, nothing could ever beat this moment. The film ends and he drives her home. They step out of the car, and walk to her door. She smiles, and wonders what he's thinking. She notices his eyes again, and feels compelled to look into them. Then closes her eyes, and leans forward. She doesn't know what to expect, and she doesn't care. But its there, she finds him and they become one for what feels like an eternity. They break apart and she wraps her arms around him and whispers "i've been waiting for this".....

J-Moose