As some of you may or may not know, i play in my schools band. I'll admit, i'm not that great but i like playing so it doesn't matter. At yesterdays practice, a semi-friend (used to be full friend) started talking to me saying things like "Oh my god, we never see each other any more" "We should really talk more". It's a little upsetting to be hearing things like that because really i had no intention of not talking to this person anymore. You see, last summer when most of you were out having a good time, i was sitting at home bored out of my skull. My so called friends never called me to hang out once, and the one or two times i made the effort to call them, they showed little to no interest in seeing me. I remember i asked one of them if he was interested in coming to a concert with me, sometime in october. His reason for not wanting to come, "I don't know what i'm doing that day". Bullcrap!!! It was july when i asked him, and the concert wasn't until october. Of course you don't know what your doing that day, its not for another 3 months.
How many of you have had something similar happen to you before? You're friends with someone, then 5 minutes later you never rarely talk and you find yourself hanging out with a completely different group of people. It's a sad thing to happen, but i'm pretty sure i'm not the only one who's experienced this before. Hit me with comments, and i'll draft your responses into a new blog......
J-Moose
Tuesday, November 20, 2007
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Yeah, I've been there. Except it wasn't anybody's fault or due to any neglect or whatever...... just growing apart. It happens I guess, people change. Especially for young people who change at an alarming rate. What's cool one week is not the next, and we adapt accordingly. The friendships I lost were due to people changing, growing apart and just not having the same things in common, the things that made us friends in the first place. So suddenly you don't like seeing a person as much, just because things have changed a bit. So you call somebody else instead. And then, before you know it, you haven't seen the first person for awhile - or else they're just another face in the hallway. It gets harder and harder to reach out to them. Things get awkward because nobody wants to discuss what's happened and they want to deny it. And then one day you look around, think about your friends and realize that that person... isn't one of them. My closest childhood friends (some of them) and I hardly talk anymore. Another one I grew apart from when we got to high school. It's sad, it is, but the things that bond us when we're kids are a lot different from when we're adults. I guess it's part of life.
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Moosyy! i made a point to call u when we did Stuffy:D some times u cam esometimes u didnt. :D when u came good times when u didnt well those were good times too AND HOW COME U NEVER CALL ME:'( WAAAAA lol come on lets c this song!
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