I think i've had one of those days where your mind tells you to do one thing, but your heart tells you the complete opposite. Personally these i believe that these are the days that i wait for, mainly because they cause me to think outside of the box and concentrate on things i'd completely ignore. But today it made me focuse on one topic, and it's the topic i always seem to discuss on here, relationships. One would think that i write about relationships because i seem to crave to have one myself, and i think i'd be lying to myself and to anyone who reads this, if i said other wise. Any time I talk to someone about finding a significant other, i always end up saying the exact same thing "there's not a girl desperate enough out there to date me". The more I say that, the more i come to believe it. But then again, i've never met a girl who was interested in me as more then a friend.
To be brutally honest though, i did have something for a friend of mine for the majority of highschool, and we tried to make it work, but it never did, and now she's got a boyfriend. Then again, i'm not the best option for a boyfriend.....there i go, putting myself down, only to realize i'm hurting myself and ruining anything good in my life. Whoops, sidetracked for a second there. Most girls i know are amazing. Their beautiful, smart, funny, and serious when the time calls for it. The ones i consider close friends have boyfriends, and i couldn't be happier for them, but it just leads me to believe that there are no good girls left out there for me. Then again, i don't know many people with which i could go out and meet new people with, so really i'm kind of limited in my choices for relationships. Of course there are some pretty attractive girls where i work, but i'm not one to just go up introduce myself, and try to spark up conversation. And the majority of them already have boyfriends, and in all honesty, are way out of my league.
So there it is kids. I've pretty much resorted to writing on here to discuss my relationship woes. Sad in way, but in another, i can always rely on the feedback of my fellow bloggers......
J-Moose
Friday, December 7, 2007
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4 comments:
Jesus H. Christ!
J-moose how many times must i tell you that there is a girl out there for you but you have to look.
And I'm going to say this as one of your closer girl friends and I mean it in nicest way possible way.
GET OVER YOURSELF!
Stop playing the victim! Instead of focusing on why a girl wouldn't want to date you focus on why she would! Not all girls are focused on looks if thats what discourages you, WHICH IT SHOULDN'T!
What you need to do is develop some social skill which can be aquired by practising them! Get out there and meet new people! Going to formal was a great start. The only down side is that Ancaster girls a superficial Barbie dolls.
So in order to find this dream girl your looking for you have to be confident with yourself and if your not FAKE IT! Confidence is key because girls can tell when guys are intimidated and that makes them feel like they're unaproachable.
And to be blunt, you aren't going to find her right away and there are going to be alot of hit and misses and you are going to get hurt. But you know what with all those firends you've made by putting yourself out there you'll get back on your feet in no time and be ready to start looking again.
J-moose I love you you're one of my closer guys friends that I unfortuatly don 't get to spend much time with outside of school. And I don't want to sound mean I just want you to understand that talk is cheap but it also doesn't cost much to take some action.
Missy-D
For someone with such low self-esteem, you don't seem to have a problem with judging others.
I'd just like to say 'ouch' on behalf of the girls who aren't 'amazing'.
If you're so desperate for a relationship, maybe you just need to lower your standards.
too true missy-d. And to the anonymous commenter it's not that i have high standards, i just don't think that girls would go for a guy like me. It's not that i'm looking for the perfect girl, because i don't consider myself to be the perfect guy. I'm patient to an extent, and really i just need to go out and meet new people. Majority of the problems i have can be solved so easily.
I agree with second anonymous. . .
But of course, 1st blogger makes a good point.
In the end, you need to suck it up, cause life is too short to have such little confidence and such a big ego.
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